Compliance Manager Lorie Hardy Pens Book About Learning From Troubling Relationships

Author Lorie Hardy

This month's spotlight focuses on Lorie Hardy, a compliance manager, who has written and published the book, "There are no good men, because there are no good women", in an effort to educate others about learning from troubling relationships.

BIO

Lorie Hardy, is CEO/Founder of Empowerment4life.com, an organization focusing on the four main aspects of life; finance, health, employment and love, with an emphasis on love. Blessed with a genuine love for humanity, a positive outlook on life, she believes there is someone for each of us and desires to see everyone in happy and healthy relationships. 

Lorie works as a Compliance Manager for the County, but has a passion for writing.  She is the mother of three beautiful children, Amanda, Shannon, and Houston who were partially responsible for the completion of her first published book “There Are No Good Men, Because There Are No Good Women”.  Her goal was to take what she’d learned through her troubling relationship experiences and share it with them to ensure that they would be better equipped to understand and to deal with the complexities of similar problems that might arise in their futures.

During her life journey, Lorie experienced things that would cause her to question God, "Why am I going through all of this grief?"  She was a good person and didn't think she deserved being treated in such an extremely undesirable way.  We always think we know what is best for us. I had to learn that God was in control and knew what was best for me and mainly to seek Him before we make decisions.

Without pointing the finger at anyone else, she learned from a previous involvement, that you can’t always put the entire blame on the other person when your relationship isn’t working.  “Even if you’re not causing the friction, you are equally as responsible if you’re not holding the other person accountable for the friction they’re causing.” It took 17 years for Lorie to understand and acquire the knowledge to pen her first book.

Once out of the storm, she realized that what she had experienced, wasn’t just for her personal growth and benefit.  She had a testimony and a duty to share her story to empower every woman she encountered.  She slowly began the task of writing her book, but it wasn't until random women, strangers with similar plights, began to share their personal stories with her that she really became driven to complete her book.

Listening to the women, she began to realize that at some point in time, women had lost their self-esteem, their self-worth, and their power.  “We as women have so much power, but we have relinquished it just to say that we have a man or simply because we don't wish to be alone.”

 “There Are No Good Men, Because There Are No Good Women” is geared toward single women, single men and married couples who desire to be in healthy, successful, and loving relationships.

Lorie is currently a Board of Director for Praying Single Mothers and is a weekly co-host on the “Straight Talk” show broadcasting on starplanettv.com.  She will soon begin broadcasting her own show entitled, Empowerment for Life, which focuses on those same aspects of life.

Lorie also is currently working on her second book and a play that will coincide with her first book. Lorie can be booked for speaking engagements through her website, www.empowerment4life.com, @empowermnt4life, lhardy@empowerment4life.com, or facebook.com/empowerment4life